We’ve been a bit reclusive as we transition into life as a family of six. Thanks to everyone checking in on us and bringing us meals! I’ve only had to cook 2-3 times/week since mid-December. What a blessing! (Especially since our oven broke last week. Yikes!)
Everyone is doing well. In some ways, we had so many expectations, in other ways we really had none. But overall, any and all expectations we dared to hold have been far exceeded… especially in regard to language, education, and most importantly, attachment.
When you think about just the culture change, alone, I’m amazed at how well James and Esther are adjusting. Then you start factoring in the deeper things - their past trauma, their grief in leaving behind everything they knew, etc. - and realize just how much they are processing right now. We are working through a lot of difficult, emotionally challenging stuff. Life in our house is very messy, but the kids’ resilience and God’s goodness just shine through.
The piece you might not expect is that Asher and Cora are going through a period of grief, too. Their former life no longer exists and that’s a lot to take in. Their sweet friends have been so kind in offering encouragement and giving them time to retreat from the chaos of our house. Much gratitude from Chad and I!
When I pray over the kids each night, I am just making a point of thanking God for always being with us and never leaving us. That just seems to be the message all 4 kids (and Chad and I too!) need to remember right now. All other expectations may go to the wayside, but we can have complete confidence in that truth.
P.S. I’m keeping an ongoing list of the cute, adorable and hilarious things that are being said and done. I’ll be sure to share a few in the future – they will warm your heart!
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| I didn't catch it on camera, but Esther DID smile this day! ;) |
"So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the Lord your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.” Deuteronomy 31:6
